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Boobs on Bikes pornographic?

Posted by shiania on August 23, 2008

Been thinking about this subject a bit of late. Can’t really help it as it has been splashed all over the national news all week. But I have a few thoughts on this subject.

Firstly, congrats to you Steve Crow, you went to court and came out the sucessor. Brilliant strategy for the Erotica Expo that is also your brainchild. You not only got an injuction saying that you could go ahead with this parade down Queen Street, but you’ve also managed a ton of free publicity, thanks to the local council and all the anti porn fan clubs out there.

This was so well done that I, at one point, thought that it was a scam that was cooked up by someone in your regime and someone in the council to bring financial equity into the region, as well as give you all press coverage that would have cost an awful lot of money. However, I realised that the council and yourself would never have tied the courts up for so long, and put everyone in the country through all of that torment, just for free publicity. But it was very well timed, on both parts.

Secondly, I would like to say how accommodating your parade were to those that decided to use your hard work and efforts to bring to the podium their gripes and groans about how the sex industry brings about such things as violence, rape and other socially unacceptable behaviours that humans partake in. I thought this was very kind of you all to let those people have their say as well. I am almost certain, had the shoe been on the other foot, those same people would not have been as accommodating to your cause, and willingly let you march in protest of what they were doing.

Now, my views on the whole deal. I am not one who condones or condemns the pornographic industry. I believe, in part, that the sex industry may cause those with violent tendencies to bring out that part of them in society. They may see something that has been glorified in a magazine or on a XXX movie and then go out and find some unwillilng party to fulfill those carnal urges they have.

I also believe that if it were not for the sex industry that there could possibly be worse crimes being commited. Prostitutes, in part, do a service to humanity. They put their bodies and their lives on the line so people who can not, or will not, find a willing partner, can relieve their tensions and calm those carnal desires for a limited time, until they need to relieve themselves again. This, surely, has to be helping to keep the crime levels down a tad.

The freedom for women to show their bare breasts in public? Although I personally would not do this myself, I can fully understand that women are constantly after equal rights and if it is ok for a man to walk around wherever he wants to topless, then why can’t women?  After all, a body is a body.

Finally, I would like to say … if that parade was pornographic because there were bare chested women around, then how can those antipornographic lobbyists justify their summer visits to the beach?

I am pretty sure that not one single person in that march that preceded that parade has never been to the beach during a hot summer’s day. And those who have children I am almost certain have taken their child to the beach or the pools for a swim to cool down.

Unless you’re all completely blind, there are worse sights on the beach and in the pools that what would have been in Queen Street that day. Men with bare chests and skimpy swimming trunks. Women and even teenage girls wearing enough cloth to barely cover their god given assets, some which are even see through once water is applied. And more often than not, neither of these places are as heavily policed as that parade was.

Personally, I might take offence to anyone wearing anything less on a summer’s day, than a t-shirt, jeans or long skirt, black sweater, beanie or other type of headwear, long socks and fully covered footwear. This may seem extreme, I know, but I believe that more is better in some instances, especially when bare flesh is concerned. And with the ozone layer depleting so rapidly, level 750UV protection way suits me better than getting skin cancer because I want to show my body off.

I do not take my children to the beach, and very rarely will take them to the pools, because of some of the sights that are there. It is not right to subject your children to this kind of thing, in my opinion. If I were in Auckland on that particular day, I would not have let my children go within 50km of that area, because there was enough notification that the parade was happening to be able to have enough sense to keep them away. And if there were important appointments that meant having to take them near there, I would have rescheduled unless it were a life or death situation, in which case, I wouldn’t have cared how many people were baring their breasts.

Seriously, if you’re going to be an anti-anything lobbyist, then, for God’s sake and the sake of humanity, be consistant in your protest. Don’t be hypocritical about it. Live by what you say. Don’t just jump on a bandwagon because it is there at the time and have the rest of the country have to foot the bill so you can all get a bit of free publicity.

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Imagine how furious I was to hear this

Posted by shiania on July 23, 2008

Yesterday, on our way back from Wellstop we were listening to talkback radio. A story had just come to light regarding the Meningitis immunisation program that was being run here over a period of a few years. The talkback host was talking with specialists in the medical field, and the things that came out made me want to  listen to the news at 6pm. Things happened, and I missed the news last night, but I came across this story this morning whiel going through my news feed. The story can be found at http://www.nzherald.co.nz/section/1/story.cfm?c_id=1&objectid=10522985&ref=rss.

Three years ago I was encouraged to get my daughter immunised. Three injections given over an 18 week period would immunise my daughter against meningococcal disease. The encouragement was in the form of multiple letters from my daughters pre-school, our medical centre, and also numerous other medical organisations. To be honest, I felt hounded and harrassed by all this encouragement.

My eldest child, who will be celebrating his 22nd birthday tomorrow, was born with meningococcal disease. He was in such a severe state that doctors literally gave him less than an hour to live. Imagine being a very young teenager giving birth to your first child only to be told that he is not going to make the hour out, and that he needs to be christened, because you can’t bury a person in NZ that has not been christened. (This is exactly what the doctor said to me and I will never forget it)

I am happy to report that we got him christened in less than an hour, and that by the time the hour was up, he was starting to faintly show signs of improvement. He shows very little signs of having had the disease now, thank goodness.

Because of my son I decided that I did not want my daughter and the son I have with me to be part of this program. My understanding of how devastating this disease can be does not mean I am going to let my children willingly be guinea pigs for the scientists. (At this time I believed the serum to be still in the experimental stages.)

After almost a year of being hounded I finally gave in and let my children have the shots. BIG mistake.

My son responded well the the vaccine. However, my daughter had such a serious reaction to the first one that I decided she was not having any more. I told the doctors this, only to be told that the vaccine is so strong that it does have this kind of effect in some children. Protecting her for the years to come was more important than two weeks of swelling, fever, nausea and not being able to eat. So I agreed to the second shot being given.

The second shot was given a few months after the first one, after the doctors wore me down and made me see reason. This time the reaction was so bad that two days after the shot we took her to hospital to have her checked out as her leg had swollen so badly that we were worried that she might lose her leg. Also, we could not get her fever under control, and she was literally almost hotter than the Sahara desert.

At the hospital we were reassured that it was just paranoid parent syndrome and that this reaction is quite common amongst children and to take her home and put cold compresses on the sore part. Which we did.

My daughter was so ill that she was at home, in bed, for almost a month after this shot. And many visits to the medical centre, only to be reassured that this reaction was quite normal.

We decided that our daughter was definitely not having the final injection, no matter how much they hounded us to get it done. District nurses and practise nurses assured us on many occassions that we were making a grievous mistake in not allowing her to go through with the final injection.

Imagine my surprise when I heard on the radio yesterday that the full course of immunisation is only effective for maybe up to a year at best. I put my daughter through hell because I was ASSURED that this would keep her safe.

Listening to them discussing this made my blood boil. Seriously, as parents we try to make sure we are doing the very best we can for our children. How the hell is putting them in danger in this manner and causing them so much pain and torment, only to find out that it really doesnt work anyway, the best for our children?

Society today have become so dependant upon doctors that we allow them to treat our pride and joy as guinea pigs. I have decided that I am not going to allow anyone to use my children as guinea pigs any more and from now on they can send as many text messages, mail out reminders, and make as many phone calls as they like. I am not falling for their lies any longer.

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